Hi everyone. I am new here and I just recently purchased and read Divorce Remedy. My husband moved out about 5 weeks ago and left me under the impression that we were separated to make our marriage stronger and work things out apart. None of this has happened. Sept 18 is our 3 yr wedding anniversary. We've been together 5 yrs. Im 21 he's 24. I tried the whole begging and pleading pointing out all the positive reasons he has not to leave etc. that didnt work obviously. He says he just doesnt know. He likes being alone. Truth be told he's NEVER at his apt. I dont know where he goes he says there is no OW but I just dont know. But he told one of our mutual friends that he is done with our marriage. So I dont know whats going on. I'm more hurt and confused then Ive ever been in my whole life. Im respecting the fact that he needs time and I havent talked to him at all unless he's called me. I just dont know what to do. Im trying the 180 technique but since we dont live together I cant tell of any improvement. Should I ignore him completely? I dont want to give up I want my marriage to work more than anything. I just need some help and advice. This waiting is killing me.
kristy - sorry you are here and that no one has responded to you yet. Can you tell us more as to what led to all of this? Keep coming back and posting.