I went through all that partying stuff when I went through my first divorce and I made a lot of bad decisions during that time(I am in NO way trying to say y'all have done or will do this). I got involved with my current H too soon after my divorce and didn't take time to heal.
Just watch yourselves guys. Don't mean to be Debbie Downer.
I tend to prefer more drinking, more social scenes, more music, more bodies, etc. No more quiet sushi dinners for me - it's now off to mixers at wine bars, mud wrestling, that sort of stuff. Who's in???
Me!! Me!! That sounds like my kind of scene too. TX isn't too far from KS!
"You're my boy, Blue!!"
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Me: 30 H: 28 Separated: 06/01/07 D bomb: 07/17/07 after me pushing and pushing! #2 bomb: 08/13/07 Once again, I pushed!! #3 bomb: 01/08/08 Previous Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1322680&page=0&fpart=1
I got involved with my current H too soon after my divorce and didn't take time to heal.
Just watch yourselves guys. Don't mean to be Debbie Downer.
I can say I definitely will never be getting married again and don't even want to live with any guy especially since I have two young kids. I am perfectly happy with the way things are going with just talking on the phone, going out once a weekend when I don't have the kids and using the other night to go out partying with a friend. No being tied down for me. Nope won't do it.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
this guy will have a lucky few months since I don't get to see him all that often. All the pent upness will be there by next time around. LOL
I will enjoy it this weekend. I just got to stay away from the shots if any so I can actually function and not ready to pass out by the end of the night.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley