Nooooooo....don't seduce him! Just keep the uhm tension in the air, until neither one of you (especially him) can't stand it anylonger and the volcano erupts.
Ummmm....but what if I blow first? (no pun intended, of course!)
WOW AMY! You sure are pulling out the heavy artillery! LOL
Well......geeeeeeeeeeez! Since this is an adult channel i will simply have to say it like this. Sorry guys......
Since we all know that it takes men longer than women to recover from the eruption......it's all good Amy!! You'll get a double.
LOL All I have to say is that there are some TOUGH women on this board! LOL Is that "G" enough for you ladies? LOL
He's back peddling on everything. Had told me Weds night when he called to being my laundry over tonight and he could get it going while I take D10 skating...blah, blah. Not that I was going to let him DO that, but it was a nice offer anyway.
She called and said he was going to take her.
He had also said if S14 wanted to spend the night over the weekend while we're working, he could.
Last night when S14 asked though, he told him no, he couldn't stay Friday night.
I am seriously wondering about even going over there tomorrow morning. The only thing that makes me think 'Oh, hell yes I am!' is that I'm not going to play into his need to keep seeing me as the bad guy because he's too scared to get out of the damn boat.
So, you go, and act comfortable. Help make him feel comfortable. I don't mean 'make yourself at home', but not too distant, either. And don't let him see that the backpedaling is bothering you at all. I guess it might be acting 'as if'.
So, you go, and act comfortable. Help make him feel comfortable. I don't mean 'make yourself at home', but not too distant, either. And don't let him see that the backpedaling is bothering you at all. I guess it might be acting 'as if'.
Have a good weekend!
OJ
Exactly Amy, stop letting him control how you feel. You do your thing regardless of how he acts. As he sees you remaining constant and steady, he'll come around too. Stay positive, stay happy, it'll rub off on him. (I'm doing the same, and it'll rub off on W ;-) )
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
How ya doing, girl? I was trying to find someone's thread that I think locked up and can't find where they may have went next. Is there a secret to know how to find someone without going through every single post on this board?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
All I can be is who I am and if that's not good enough there is nothing I can do about it so I'm not gonna waste time worrying about what may or may not even happen.
I have no games to play. There are no ways to "act".
I'm just going to be real. Me.
And I am going to help the man I LOVE and WANT TO HELP with the yardwork at the place both our kids call home and BOTH of us love regardless of the fact I don't live there. If all that happens is he gets a good deal on a refinance and some of HIS financial pressure is lessened, then I will consider the weekend a success.
I hope I didn't come across as saying you should play games! I think you've got the attitude nailed. You go because you want to, and your only expectation is that some yardwork gets done! I've got some tumbleweed that needs pulling tomorrow...I hope your yardwork isn't quite so icky!
