I guess I am giving her space and taking mine. I could have joined the family at the cottage - but enjoyed the break. Not looking forward to this weekend as her B-day is Saturday and she is dreading hitting the big 40.
Can't stand the lack of converstaion and the teenage antics. Each day that she doesn't work (2 days a week) is shopping or partying. Last two days spent at her freinds pool during the day having drinks.
Asked her about our C session for next week - normally on Thursday's - she can't do it going out with friends from work for her B-day. She said maybe Tuesday. I asked if she thought it was worth it - her reply what do you think. Good one - dodge the question with a question. Quit honestly I am not to crazy about the counselor. As I stated before it seems rather one sided.
Maybe I just wish I can get away with it. Still have 7 days of vaca left for the year - maybe it is time to take a break.
The sad thing is that most of our frinds are having marital problems. I can make a TV show or movie out of the situation.
AKFLY Feel the same way. You are just starting this ride. My W wrote out a schedule until the end of Jan how we are going to share the house one week at a time for the school year. She had other months listed but nothing for dates. I am ready for this to be over and have her face reality of her choices.
To top it off the W lost her major account on her new job last week, wonder why? So now she is down to two days for that job and her other PT job. I think it is time for her to get back into a full time job!!
Good luck this weekend, I'll be working all weekend.
"Worry is the price you pay for most of the things in life that never happen"
Well the weekend was just so - so. Friday her and i went out for dinner - pretty boring as we obviously did not talk about much until we got home. I did bring up the fact that C said that we are both depressed - she did not wnat to hear a thing about it. She went to bed and I went to the neighbors for a few beers. We had about 18 people over for her B- day on Saturday. I cleaned up the place, set up the evreything made dinner cleaned up and set down. All for Goodwll. Not even a hug. Oh well at leat that is over. Played golf the rest of the weekend to keep myself busy.
She did get on my nerves Sunday night - just can't stand her tone of voice sometimes. Told her to stop it or I am out of here. She said she will be nicer. Whatever - at least I got my point across that I would not be talked down to.
So I get home last night and look at the Family calendar - she is filling in her dates to get out and party with the girls. So I managed to fill in a few dates for myself where I had golf dates set up. No more compromising on my end.
