Healing and Moving Forward

[inmyplace]

Hi bam.

Ok...maybe I can read your post before I go on!

Well, bam. All I can say is yep (notice, not yes). I think Been there, done that, don;t even have the ****ing t-shirt.

What I am saying is...you are just fine.

IMP

[GK99]

Sometimes, I think I will never find another partner who is whole...whom I can trust completely......whom I have complete faith in. That makes me truly sad. My heart is broken, my faith shaken and my soul shattered. Tonight it just seems so dim.

Bambam, I struggle with this all the time. I was just talking to one of my best friends the other night about this very topic. He said the usual stuff...things like 'this experience will help me grow and be a better person' and all that.
But I think the real message in all of this is that we have to learn that we can be okay on our own, and that we don't need anybody else to make us happy. That's the mistake our spouses make - they think these OP will make them happy. And they might for a short while, but eventually they have to realize what we're on our way to understanding - the only ones who can make us happy is us.

I try to focus on the positives of being single: I don't have to answer to anyone. I don't have to feel guilty for flirting with women. I am gaining a real sense of accomplishment doing things on my own and for myself. I have a better appreciation of my family and my true friends. It's not always easy, but it does help me through some of my bad days.

I hope you have a good night Bambam!

[Cinderellaman]

Sometimes, I think I will never find another partner who is whole...whom I can trust completely......whom I have complete faith in. That makes me truly sad. My heart is broken, my faith shaken and my soul shattered. Tonight it just seems so dim.

Me too.......................



I miss you sweety !!!! email me ok ! xxxx

[bambam1970]

Thanks guys! I'm better now. BUSY....showing my house this AM. Heating/cooling guys and drywallers at my new house! Yea me!

Started teaching again this week....bit stressed!

Hope everyone is good.

GK - I agree with those things about being single. My trust is just broken right now and I know that's part of the process. Sometimes my wine glass is half empty and not half full!

Cinders!

I miss you, to Sister! I'll email you today

IMP - What can I say? You always make me smile!

[bambam1970]

Well, bam. All I can say is yep (notice, not yes). I think Been there, done that, don;t even have the ****ing t-shirt.

There's a shirt for that???? What about shoes to match

[inmyplace]

There's a shirt for everything. Look at the one I recently bought for my sons.

Say hello to my little friend

And considering how often I walk around my office without my shoes, who needs them!

[bambam1970]

Holy Cow!!!! It's Tatoo!

"Boszzz, da plaaane, da plaaane!"

I miss that show and Love Boat. Sighhhhh.

[inmyplace]

My imitatuion of Tattoo and Mr Rourke

Tattoo: Boszzz, da plaaane, da plaaane

Rourke: Shut up, Tatto, you little s**t.

Crack my boys up.

[Cinderellaman]

There's a shirt for everything. Look at the one I recently bought for my sons.

Say hello to my little friend

And considering how often I walk nd my office without my shoes, who needs them!

FANTASY ISLAND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOW it's the word we've been looking for for all these MLC'ers !!!!

[inmyplace]

No no no...I don't want to think about MLC when I see the shirts!