Wife called me about 20 times Thursday evening and during the day Friday, all about nothing and to the point it was getting annoying. Then Friday around 5pm she called to see if they could come over since she needed to use the computer. Well the softy I am I said sure and they got over shortly after that. They showed up and she jumped right on the computer, she had nothing she needed to use the computer which I found out fairly quickly. Chris and I ended up going and getting stuff for dinner after she said she was hungry and in talking found out she had not eaten since Tuesday.
Our son went out to play after we ate and that is when it got interesting. She informed me she lied on Monday about having found someone else, that she was doing everything she could to get me to let go and move on. That with being her biggest push to date, she realized as soon as we got off the phone with me according to her that she was screwing up big time. She had called in sick to work everyday because she could not stop crying.
They ended up staying half the night because she wanted to talk and we had to wait till the little one fell asleep.
So to make a long story short, she has agreed to go to any MC I choose, she has also agreed to go to Retrouville which I had asked her to go to a couple of times. As for now I am going to keep my apartment since I have no lease and can move out with any 30 day notice, and that will also let us go at this slowly and not jump right back into turmoil, we are going to keep our finances separate. We are going to have dinner 4-5 nights a week together as a family and on our mutual days off spend them together but at the same time neither of us will spending the night at the others place, first to go slow and second not to screw with sons mind. Oh yeah, SHE gave me a HUG and a KISS prior to waking up son and going home last night.
I am so excited but going to go cautiously and with a open mind.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I am so happy for you. You did great. I hope there is a Retrouvaille soon. The sooner the better. I am so happy for you. I really think this is going to work out well.
Well wife and the little one packed a lunch and showed up as I was going to lunch today, so we hung out at the park had some sandwiches and let son get sand everywhere, thankfully we went in her car . While he was playing on the jungle gym, I got nothing but apologies from her the whole time and wanting me to forgive her for the year we have been having.
So tomorrow when I wake up I am suppose to over and have a homemade breakfast, yeah, no cold cereal this time.
Still shaking my head and wondering when she is going to say April Fools. So weird coming from a women who hated my guts for the last few months and all that.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
No, she never hated you. No. My toes are tingling. You have been on my mind. I was so hoping something like this would happen because, honestly, it couldn't have happened to a nicer guy. I was thinking today, "Damn, what is 789 gonna do? Get married again? No, he will have to keep waiting or stay alone. He can't get married to a 3rd wife and have a 3rd son with a 3rd wife. NO. He will have to persevere ntil she gets her wits and realizes what a prize it is to be with the father of her baby. Her husband!" Then, she came to her senses and knew home was a safe place and she trusted in your 180's. They are for real. YES!
OK, keep DBing. Don't be weak.
Retrovilewhatever-good!!!!
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
789, I am so very happy for you!!! You deserve this. You've worked so hard and put up with so much. I am so glad that she finally came to this realization! Everything happens for a reason, and even though it took so long for it to come to this and it was a long and painful journey, I know everything will work out.
. While he was playing on the jungle gym, I got nothing but apologies from her the whole time and wanting me to forgive her for the year we have been having.