We keep going to MC, but every time we leave there I am more confused than when I went in. What's the best way to get results? She insists that its worthwile, she wants to keep going, but she won't get started talking. It's always me that has to get things going in session, and I end up just running things into the ditch by pushing further than she is ready for. Should I just stop going?
As long as she is going, there is a chance for a breakthrough. Don't force her into anything she is not ready to talk about. The MC should be able to get her going. If not, you may have to find another MC.