One Day at a Time II

[sadhearted]

Another locked thread.

Really nothing new to report. My H continued to email my through out last night. Nothing important. I had an email from him this morning wanted Dr info for his new insurance which he's keeping me on. Nice to know. Figured that would be the end of the conversation but now he's moved on to talking about his job. Guess I should be glad he's talking?.....

I don't know that I would say I've detachted myself but the last couple days I haven't gotten excited or sad about anything he has said or done. Guess that's a step in the right direction. Still am hopeful he'll wake up one day and we can be a family again.

[789]

That was the hardest part for me, the detaching. I was so up and down. Now just pretty much mellow and let it all flow. It does get easier day by day. You can do it, you know you can.

[sadhearted]

I'm not mellow. You may have to keep reminding me of that.

I'm ready to just loose it. My kids have done nothing but cause mess after mess for the last 2 days. While ago I go into the bathroom to find my sink is stopped up. With what I have no idea. I tried plunging it with one of those little plungers. Still stopped up. Guess tomorrow I'll go get drain cleaner see if that works. I asked my S7 what he put in the sink. He told me medicine.... Um no you did more then that. I have no idea what's in it. I'm so frustrated. And of course I'M the one that is dealing with it not his lovely father.

[789]

You forgot to use the duct tape

That drano stuff don't work. Just take the U part out from under the sink, whatever it is will be sitting in it.

[sadhearted]

Screw the tape I'm going to tie him to a chair.

Um yeah your assuming I have some kind of skills. If I'm having issues with this how in the world am I going to make it from now on without my H? I'm so screwed....

[789]

Screw the tape I'm going to tie him to a chair.

Careful, child abuse in some states.

Um yeah your assuming I have some kind of skills. If I'm having issues with this how in the world am I going to make it from now on without my H? I'm so screwed....

You will do fine either way, stop thinking that way.

[sadhearted]

I'd hate to think I'll have to follow him around every where he goes.

I may be fine. My house on the other hand....

[789]

Do you have a big funny looking wrench?

[sadhearted]

You mean they aren't all funny looking?

I'm sure there are wrenches in the garage.

A person should not be able to laugh and cry at the same time. I think I need the guys in white jackets. Okay I'm done. Odd thing is this time it's not because of him. Have no idea why though. I'm not down. Damn rollercoaster.

[789]

Women

Hey at least you can laugh some.

Should I send you a picture of what you need?