Hi all. I wanted to hear from the men here. As we know, images of naked women filter the Internet, magazines and films. Do you think this is adultery if you lust after someone other than your wife.
A balanced guy that knows the difference between right and wrong, that is in happy and fulfilled R with his W, has no reason to look at porn. If he does, then I think he needs professional help.
When the R is in trouble and the man's emotional needs in that he isn't being valued, aren't being met, I think he would be inclined to look at porn as a substitute. That doesn't make it right, it's only an observation.
Is it adultery? I think it is.
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
Hi everyone~ I appreciate the responses. I apologize if I offended anyone. In relation to webcams/pornos, I wanted to hear how a man defined adultery. I know it's just a slice of society. A person has a different testimony. I already knew that men tend to be visual, and women more emotional. My primary post says, "Plz do not think I am typecasting every man." Obviously, there are adulterous women, and those who are less emotional.
A long, long, long time ago a male would procreate with any female that moved. It is in our DNA. There wasn't a problem with that as there were no "rules or writings" stating otherwise. Mankind evolved but I still have that animalistic nature. Not adultery in my view. You find me a hetero male that doesn't undress a woman with their eyes daily and I will show you a liar.
For me it will be business as usually until society completely flips it's lid and engineers this trait from me.
Hi, Stop with the blame game here. I inquired since the issue effects both women and men. I do not think I was out of line. The topic touched my friend's life. I do believe in helping others.
I find this whole thread just weird. The initial question was weird, coming from a Moderator, and then she goes back and keep the thread alive SIX MONTHS later?
