Has anyone heard from RCR? Is her ankle healed? Are she and Sweetheart doing alright?
Haven't seen anything of her recently.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Our mouse stopped working...so I may not be able to access over the weekend. I bought a new one...but the wrong one. I'll take it back tonight...hope there isn't a bigger problem than the mouse.
My foot...
Let's see...surgery was 19 June. The stitches were rmoved this tuesday. They wer egoing to last Tuesday...but it was till opening.
The aid removed the stitecehs and THEN the Dr. came to see...it was still opening :o--just a bit at one end.
I feel no pain though!
I'm still not allowed to put weight on it. I'm wearing a boot...never got a regular cast. And I don't go back for three weeks--July 31!
Sweetheart and I are on vacation mid August...I may still be in the boot!
I'm doing a ton of reading...nothing new there.
I wrote a page on Grace...just not a lot of resources. Last week I strted looking at Frogivenss--I've also looked at Detachment/Letting-Go/Surrender...I move around.
Well forgiveness...tons of stuff out there. I picked up 6 books formt he library the other day and 6 more are witing still--I could only carry 6 in my fanny pack--giant fanny pack--and no, that doesn't mean it goes on a giant fanny.
I also went to another libray and got a few more--text heavy volumes. I am so excited! I've also prionted out a few inches of paperwork fromt he web--found some great articles and research papers...some lead me to the books. It's like Christmas!And DARN...I can't go and highlight library books!
I'll post this for now and check back. I'm at work and just got back from lunch, so I want to get going on my resumes. So excited...I even oerhauled my own resume this week...though I do that regularly...but still excited about it!
I am glad to hear you are alright and the foot is healing. I went through a similar experience about 12 years ago with my ankle or leg just above the ankle joint both clean through both bones nearly came through the skin. Long process of getting back to normal.
Did you post the page on Grace? If so, where is it posted? I am not posting much on my thread as I really have nothing to post. Still standing and praying hard. Valentine gave me some excellent scripture based prayers. I have been praying them for a couple of weeks. Still not divorced but only because papers were not right. It has been over 3 years since the "bomb" but only a year since OW. Sometimes it is hard to stay confident in my decision to stand but I can't make myself give it up.
I am looking forward to hearing more from you. Good luck with your ankle. How is Sweetheart doing? Well, I hope.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
I'm getting ready to leave...so if the mouse doesn't work I won't be abck until Monday. And maybe Is hould try not to check in anyway--sorry, but so much reading!
No I haven't posted my writing. It's all part of a big piece. But I think iI will end up posting just pieces. I do want ideas and feedback and this is a great forum for that. It's a balance of posting a works in progress and feeling bad that they aren't formal or final and wanting feedback.
I think what I will eventually post--at least--is the outline for this big piece. I don't really think of it as outlline because I guess I simply like lists...but I really, it's an outline.
There are just so many exciting tangents! FUN!
Sweetheart is doing well these dyas. The latest diagnosis from the protein loss in his urine is MEmbraneous Nephropathy.
All that tells me is he has a disease of the membranes in his nephrons.
Let's see...channles that are meant to keep proteins in are widening--thus leakage. But why? So he has two months before going back...and during that time he has a bunch of tests to take.
Chest X-Ray the other day. Poop test--he had to pick up another kit because overnight the first one fell in the toilet! HA! ...and others. They are going to look for Cancer. He's scared, but hmmm. you know what...he's not feaking out like he could--me either. But he has freak-out moments.
Okay...gotta go. Going to costco so Sweetheart can help me get watermelon--like I can carry it--not!
It is wonderful to hear thatyou and sweetheart are doing well. I am sure the Librarians where you are at are good but <uhmmm>, I would always be happy to help with your research, too.
((((RCR))))
Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.
bomb: Jan 25, 2006 not seen since DD moved in with H - 9/1/08 H filed for divorce - 11/2008 Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010 still nothing
