has anyone else spotted there spouse for a short time only to have them kidnapped by that imposter the WAS.
I am officially done with my wife after this episode. i tell her i need to talk she comes over breaksdown cries, we kiss, and hug. She goes back to work nd gets sent home bc she cant pull it together. We go out to dinner. Next day and ever since she backs off. is this normal? i had it out with her the other day i am done. she went from saying she is confused to being sure she doesnt love me. Good luck to everyone else but there is no one worth 7 months of our time.
Bit, I just happened to come back for a sec to see how people are doing. It is TOTALLY normal for the WAW to back off after coming close.
Dude my wife and I connected in our last meeting and I haven't heard from her in 4 weeks. Wanna talk about backing off?
Just relax a little. I do think you need to determine if she's worth it period, regardless of time into separation. If 7 months is your max, let her go. If she's worth more than that, give her a bit of space and then go talk to her.
I finally have another meeting with my wife scheduled for next Wednesday, so that'll make 3 meetings in over 3 months. Yeah, it's hard, but if that's what she needs, OK!
I think we'll get some traction on our direction in this next meeting.
Just be cool man, it'll all work out.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Oh the back off is typical and should always be expected after in slight positive forward movement. In my situation we are having a lot of back and forth. Funny all that happened in the last 2 days that was negative and caused my me seems to be forgotten. She's TMed me a bunch today!
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
