when I brought up the A. yesterday he became upset.
Yes, violets, that would do it.
Have a good night and practice biting your tongue. But I do understand your need to get this behind you. You may need to say something like "H, I need to get this off the plate once and for all." And then actually be done with it.
You are right of course. Who can move forward while constantly dwelling in the past. I have made the decision to try and move on, well at least that is my resolve now. Thanks for the advice and insight. Love, Violets