My wife is having my daughter's 4th birthday party for her family today. She had told me before that I could come if I wanted to, but she didnt sound real thrilled about me being there. I watched my son last night so she could get the party stuff ready and when she came to pick him up today she told me 3 o'clock. So I'm invited Guess my daughter kept insisting and insisting that her daddy be there. Wife was acting kind of weird towards me today, she was dressed nice today for the party and I told her she looked good, usually she says thanks, but she just kinda looked at me. But other than that she was been getting more and more friendly. Not that she was never not friendly, but just friendly in a business like manner, this week she's been friendly in a more personal manner. She's been calling me lots this week and instead of just saying what she had to say and getting off as quick as she can she has been staying on and chit chatting. She even called this week crying to me about her bad day at work in literal tears, so her coming to me for comfort made me think I am definitely on the right track. Even caught her checking me out when I had my shirt off, haha Since she left I have lost 25 more pounds and have been lifting weights and working out like a mad man.
Can't look too deep into these developments, but I guess what I have been doing is starting to work. I have just totally backed off this week, have probably talked to her on the phone 20 times this week and all but twice it was her that called me. And most of the time it has been me to end the conversation instead of me just sitting there until she said she had to get off.
You should be there and I am sure she knows that it is just awkward to extend the invitation. She probably expected you to insist on being there. Help her out with her work sitation and the party. Hopefully, she will appreciate it even she she does not say so.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
You should be at the party, it is for your daughter, not you and W. Your daughter should not be a part of what is going on, be her dad and be their for her.
Tell her Happy Birthday for us.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Guess my daughter kept insisting and insisting that her daddy be there. Wife was acting kind of weird towards me today, she was dressed nice today for the party and I told her she looked good, usually she says thanks, but she just kinda looked at me. But other than that she was been getting more and more friendly. Not that she was never not friendly, but just friendly in a business like manner, this week she's been friendly in a more personal manner. She's been calling me lots this week and instead of just saying what she had to say and getting off as quick as she can she has been staying on and chit chatting. She even called this week crying to me about her bad day at work in literal tears, so her coming to me for comfort made me think I am definitely on the right track. Even caught her checking me out when I had my shirt off, haha 