I broke the rule where you are supposed to talk about things that do involve the separation and divorce! Yikes! We were having fun driving in the country and being positive, then my husband mentions that he prefers the country town outside of our city. It has less crime and it is more quaint. I asked, "Would you prefer living there?" He said yes but it is not possible now because he gives me his whole paycheck but that was not going to last. He needs his own money to rent a place. He said he wanted to rent a place so he could be close to the kids but it is too expensive. I better go back to work full time, he suggested. Wow. What a blow. Plus, he said it all right in front of the kids so it is all out there! All from one question. Now I know for sure he wants to move out and stop supporting me. He just wants out ASAP.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
I don't think it neccesarily means that. Sounds like he was just yapping away. Maybe he is dreaming of you all living out in the country. ya never know.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
mind if a newbie joins in - think I would listen to the believe 50% of what you hear on that one. He may have been trying to get a response out of you and if you didn't respond good on you -of course if he's like a lot of men (me for instance), he was venting out loud. Hang in there and keep the faith!
Me 47 W 45 D 16 & 13 S 9 & 5 Married 20 years Sep 13 May '07 DB Start 1 Jun '07
"You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go bear fruit - fruit that will last" John 15:16
Well, now I know his OW lives out there and he will probably move in with her now that he has confesses/ confirmed he is having an affair he will not end.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
