Violets, My heart goes out to you. I currently have a wife that lives w/ me but has OM on the side. It is her first A, I think, and I have been told by many people(including her parents) that I should walk. But until you are in those shoes, only you can decide. I've decided to wait for the alien that took my W to return her body.
I'm a firm believer in M and if you have kids even more so. Be sure to read Divorce Remedy for help during your difficult time. Keep us posted and you'll get lots of good advice from people that have gone thru what you're going thru.
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470
I hope your wife comes to her senses before it is too late. I am a firm believer in marriage also because I know the damage it can cause to children and extended family as well. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Thanks for the reply.
