i was trying to learn about MLC and came across a post where Snodderly speaks of a friend who was/is in MLC. originally thought that the man's WAS was having the MLC, then found out that he was in MLC himself. I am quite confused in my situation and feel that could be me... i have thought that my WAS was in depression and MLC, the sitch i am in has made me wonder if it is actually me who has been in the MLC and that has driven my WAS away.... is there any way to know for sure if i am actually in MLC or is this a silly question,,,, any input appreciated,
if there is a particular forum you think i should post this question to point me that way....
thanks for your time...
elmrjfud
Me-40 Her-38 together 18yrs EA summer 06/ PA fall 06-BombDropped-xmas 06 (ILYBINILWY - Just Friends?) Moved out -3/20/07 - Moving further away bcz of poor DBing ?4/15 story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=999831
Here is a quiz. If you find that you are a candidate, check out the 40/60 forum. It has a men's only forum and you will get such help.
We are great here too, but they have the system already in place. Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
took the quiz, seems that even in my current sitch i am still pretty normal... (as normal as can be anyhow...)
does anyone know if there's a similar quiz or site out there for women, ??
elmr
Me-40 Her-38 together 18yrs EA summer 06/ PA fall 06-BombDropped-xmas 06 (ILYBINILWY - Just Friends?) Moved out -3/20/07 - Moving further away bcz of poor DBing ?4/15 story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=999831