I am hopeful again. In other words we are having a good week.
Great! Take advantage of the good weeks and keep your eyes open for things to appreciate about your H and LET him know you appreciate him!! I believe it is helpful to YOU and him to say thank you out loud or say you appreciate him.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
What one thing could your husband change about himself that would cause you to passionately desire him on a daily basis within the next 3 months? Tell him. If he BELIEVES that you will have HD in 3 months, he will move heaven and earth to get it.
yes i have. I read the 5 love languages and I do believe his is touch. So this week I have been telling him how happy I am with some of his actions and also have been close with him. This week he made a complete 180...and he keep telling him this and how happy i am. We took a couple steps back last night...but instead of just being angry...I communicated to him how I was feeling. I am not sure if it will make a big difference...but it is better than just being mad inside.
What one thing could your husband change about himself that would cause you to passionately desire him on a daily basis within the next 3 months? Tell him. If he BELIEVES that you will have HD in 3 months, he will move heaven and earth to get it.
Cemar,
Have you been able to do this with your w? I guess we haven't had the r talk to really discuss my low desire or anything outright. It is that white elephant in the room. I think once he reads the 5 LL...I can openly say things and he will maybe understand more and understand me better. Then I can tell him that these things would equal high desire from me and vice versa.
