It's started. This w/e was a little rough. Our 12th anniv. was supposed to be Sunday. Tried to keep busy all weekend, but still thought about it alot. I don't think W even realized it. I'm not quite sure she even knows the date. When she filed her D paperwork, she listed the the 5th, not the 3rd as date of marriage.
W has been moving out all last week and this w/e. Apparently she thinks she's being sneaky. She waits until I leave to take stuff out, or she gets up extra early to take stuff out to her van. The discouraging part is she is packing everything up while the boys are w/ her. S8 getting very sad. W has kept insisting she is taking Ss w/ her. This continues to be a point of disagreement between us. I've told her since the papers have already been filed the boys have to stay where they have lived for last 60 days, state statute. All last week she was arguementative about this. This w/e, her attitude changed. She started saying things like "she wanted to do X w/ them, b/c it was going to be the last time she could". This morning W was supposed to drop-off S3 at daycare and take S8 to dentist. After they were done, she was to drop S8 off @ GP's and S8 and GP were going to play golf. W calls GPs, then me, to advise of change of plans she wants keep Ss w/ her today, "since it's the last time she's going to see them for a long time." S8 is mad. He was looking forward to playing golf. W & I got into it. I've got a call into L right now, but she's in court this am. I'm actually a little concerned for boys. With W's attitude and emotional state I don't know if I can trust her w/ Ss right now.
W is really working hard to bribe the boys to help her case. I just found out W just bought S8 a new PS2 today. "Since he's got one @ my house, she wants him to have one @ her house." This is a little ironic, considering she's been mad at me every since I bought one for him for Xmas 2 yrs ago. W keeps saying she doesn't think he needs one. Stuff like this has been going on for the last 3-4 wks. W has alwasy been very restrictive w/ TV and video games. Now, she lets him watch or play as much as he wants. Food wise, W alway stict about what Ss could eat. Now, she lets 'em eat all the crap they want to.
