I wanted to keep you all updated on my sitch. As most of you know, my D was final on 3/6/2007; that was such a blessing and a relief. As Paul Harvey would say, "Now, the rest of the story....."
I came across a Christian gal who seemed very interesting; the only problem was she was in MT and I in CO. Well, I decided to give it a shot and sent her an e-mail. Over the next several days, we e-mailed back and forth.
Finally on a Tuesday night, I asked her if we could talk on the phone; she sent me her phone number and agreed to talk at 8:30 PM. I called her promptly at 8:30 PM. We talked about a variety of things until 4:30 AM! I got a grand total of 23 minutes of sleep!
Over the next week and a half, we chatted for many hours each day. I felt us getting closer and closer. I finally decided I really needed to see if we really had the chemistry in person. I asked her if she would like to meet; I planned to fly to MT that weekend.
When I got to the airport, she was not yet there. I was sitting there, waiting and wondering. What was this woman I liked so much over the phone going to really be like in person? I called her cell phone; she said she was a couple of minutes away. I waited and wondered some more.
My cell phone rang, I looked down at it and had the feeling she was right there! I looked up and there she was! She was much cuter in person than in her pictures! I then got a nice hug! As we walked out to her car, I felt an incredible peace.
We then went to a cute little local restaurant for sandwiches; the conversation flowed just as it had on the phone. We talked about several different things.
Next, we went to a coffee shop to meet a couple from her church. We talked about politics, Christianity, marriage, the Bible and several other topics for over two hours.
We then went back to her house to hang out and walk the dogs. Her house was very nicely decorated and comfortable.
It was then on to dinner at Johnny Carino's. As we were walking in, I noticed some guys checking her out. That was TOO cool! We had a nice dinner, shared a frozen drink and dessert. We were so full!
We went back to her house, watched a movie and spent time close together. It was so awesome!
The next morning, we went to her church; it is so similar to the church I attend. It was so good to be there with her; she was singing along and raising her hands to praise God. How cool is that!?!
We had a nice late breakfast after that at another local restaurant. She seemed to be opening up a bit more. We talked about her coming to CO and going to a wedding back in PA in May. We both wanted to enjoy the moment yet we knew our time together was quickly running out.
On the way to the airport, we talked about what we thought about how the weekend went; we both indicated it went very well. I got out of the car, grabbed my bag and she had come around and was leaning back against the car. Right beside us, there was a woman in a minivan intently watching this unfold. I grabbed her and gave her a big hug. I then watched her as I walked into the airport. That was a tough moment.
Now, we are a couple of days removed from our visit. When we talked, I asked her where she saw this going. We ended up mutually deciding we would date exclusively and see where it goes. I will keep you all updated.
I wish all of you the best! Keep your eyes on Him!
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
I've been wonder how you've been doing. Glad to hear you have some blue sky going on.
Good luck on the new relationship. I wish you all the happiness in the world.
ford,
Thanks!
You want to know what really blew my mind about this woman? At the beginning, I told her flat out I want a woman who will be open and honest about her feelings. Well, I did not call her one day. The next day I called, she told me she was wondering what had happened. She told me she thought I had lost interest! HOW AWESOME IS THAT!?! A WOMAN WHO COMMUNICATES HER FEELINGS!
I immediately told her how much I appreciated her sharing this with me. She said well you SAID you wanted a woman who will be open and honest about her feelings. That made me really attracted to her!
Take Care,
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
While she and I were talking last night, I was joking around about her coming to Denver this weekend. As it ended up, I actually found her a ticket and she agreed to come. The funny thing is she will be here on the weekend of the 13th as well. It will be very cool to see her two out of three weekends in a row!
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
Last weekend, we had a great time. She really enjoyed going to my favorite Indian restaurant; prior to that she had never been to one. She seems to have a bit of a problem with keeping her hands off me..... I guess I can learn to live with that!
Things are moving along pretty smoothly now. We still talk for hours on the phone which makes it difficult to get up at 4:30 AM to workout. We'll have to see where this goes.....
RMG
Last edited by RockyMountainGuy; 04/08/0704:42 AM.
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
glad your doing well. this will be a great summer!
ford,
It looks like it will be a fun time.
There are some things I forgot to add about last weekend which you may find amusing. When I was cleaning the house, I found two crisp $20 bills in exW's drawer. What did I do with them? I took my new lady out for dinner! Also, when my new lady came to town, it just so happened I ended up putting her up in the Hyatt Regency where my exW and I spent our first wedding anniversary. That was not planned; it just happened that way.
I was wondering what is going on with your sitch. I have sifted through some of your posts without finding anything.
RMG
Last edited by RockyMountainGuy; 04/08/0704:12 PM.
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
well, in a nutshell, been back with my wife for a year and a half, going to part ways next month, we get along great. I just demand more from a wife, like no lying, cheating, you know, silly things like that.
I figure I gave my wife and kids the first 42 years, I want to see what is out there. I'm not talking women, right now I have no interest, but I want to travel and see things. I've been stuck in Denver for my whole life. kinda sick of it.
kids are all on their own and doing good. so nothing to hold me from wandering the earth for a while.
As we walked out to her car, I felt an incredible peace.
