Amazing! Every other time for nearly 10 months I would get anger, or hostility or coldness when I had to communicate. I called after not communicating for months because I couldn't bear the fighting, but I called with a message someone left that I knew he would need to know. He was actually nice. Shocking but true. I am so detached that it didn't do much but I was happy to think maybe he could be civil from now on.
My nephew, who is 26 and whom I have known since his birth is , getting married! Unfortunately the nephew is on my husband's side but I love him and he is my favorite nephew. My niece is pregnant and I'd like to see her too. This may be the last time I'll see my mother and father in-law before they die as well. It's a lot of money to go out east for three days though and my WAH says it would be too awkward to have me go. My sitch, seperated May 20 2006, married 21 years, three kids 20,17,14. At this point my life is happy happy and things are going well. Finacially, I am pointed towards ruin unless I get a job very soon. The wedding is in October. I don't see my WAH at all except for business. He avoids me. His EA online with an old high school sweetheart lasted six months and he says its over. I think he'll probably look her up when he is in Boston for the wedding now though. He says he is miserable but doesn't give me any indication that he might want to come back. Its been 16 months since he walked out. He hasn't file for divorce but I think I may. Anyone have any thoughts they want to share? I could use any feedback since I have to RSVP by tomorrow. Thanks for your thoughts. Yours, Desperate Freema
My nephew, who is 26 and whom I have known since his birth is , getting married! Unfortunately the nephew is on my husband's side but I love him and he is my favorite nephew. My niece is pregnant and I'd like to see her too. This may be the last time I'll see my mother and father in-law before they die as well. It's a lot of money to go out east for three days though and my WAH says it would be too awkward to have me go. He is taking our son, 20. My sitch, separated May 20 2006, married 21 years, three kids 20,17,14. At this point my life is happy happy and things are going well. Financially, I am pointed towards ruin unless I get a job very soon. The wedding is in October. I don't see my WAH at all except for business. He avoids me. His EA online with an old high school sweetheart lasted six months and he says its over. I think he'll probably look her up when he is in Boston for the wedding now though. He says he is miserable but doesn't give me any indication that he might want to come back. Its been 16 months since he walked out. He hasn't file for divorce but I think I may. Anyone have any thoughts they want to share as to whether I should go to the wedding? I could use any feedback since I have to RSVP by tomorrow. Thanks for your thoughts. Yours, Desperate Freema
