Thanks folks for your input. I am going to get that bike or a different one if it is unavailable. This is why.
I just got a call from my uncle that my grandmother passed away. My W is being extremely sweet and wants to be there when I tell the kids. She also wanted to spend the evening with the family before she learned about this. She hasnt said if she will go to the funeral but I cannot imagine her not attending with us because she loves my entire family (no one other than my sister, her husband and my mother know about my marriage troubles).
I am getting the bike because life is short. A bike is not an affair and it is not leaving your family. It is something to enjoy, not positive or negative, plus it helps relieve stress.
Thank you. Keep posting, especially the funny stuff. It really helps. Love you guys!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God