Jazz, you ahhhh.....read too much into things. You let your mind wander and wonder what others are thinking or what they might have meant far too often. Start taking things at face value at least here with the people on these boards.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Conflicted, here on the BB you seem like a basket case at times. Away from the comp you seem like you have your life in hand.
I am glad that you have all your stuff in one sock away from the comp.
I know you vent here, but it does seem desperate at times. And that is the concern many of us have. BTW Ian is right...even seeing a C will help you tons, we all walk the same shoes at first. I wouldn't recommend it if I hadn't done it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
IF it is to interfere with or keep tabs on your W...and sorry that came out harsh, but blunt. Then No you shouldn't.
AND Please RE-READ the thread title you chose.
IF it is to simply play in this band to GAL, then I would inform you W very breifly that they need bass player and have offered it to you, and that you are going to take it.
Only you have the honest answer to these questions.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
It's not so much spouse talk as the fact that you need to concentrate on you. You need to understand there was nothing definitive that you did to cause this to happen. It could be a billion little things or nothing at all. The focus has to be away from "what did I do to cause this so it I can make it better" and move it to "how can I make my lfe better, regardless of her"
Lis, I belive is stomping because of the quotes. Or me.
jackthreebeans at yahoo dot com
You are here because you wife left you, because she quite possibly is having a mid life crisis. What you did wrong? Nothing it would have happened anyway if it is a mid life crisis. Sorry but her past prevented her from growing up at some stage and she is now. that sucks.
What you did/ possibly are doing wrong right now is holding on too tightly to her and the idea that YOU can save her, or fix her or fix your marriage or speed this up.
Send that to my email. I will look at it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
