I'll tell you what I told TL, love like you haven't been hurt.
Excellent suggestion!
It's funny, there are things one can know logically, but remembering and applying them to every day life can be a challenge.
I don't dwell on OW either. It's much nicer to have finally let that go somewhat. I still do think of her time to time and have a little anger, but I definitely have let a lot of it go.
I do look forward to when she's a long-ago faded memory.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
How's my fav DBer? it's so nice to see you honey, sending a special prayer for you tonight, thinking of you and of those smart children you got, can you believe how old they are now? I spent the day w/my little one today, how time goes by!!
Bear hugs HH))))))))))))))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.