Old thread locked so I will start a new one. WAW say she's thinking about changing jobs because of the X-Ray machine (she's a RN) We talked about that when we were talking about having kids!?
I don't want to read too much into this but....
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
You know what bothers me is that we got the bill for the Home Owners Association dues and WAW said that she will pay the bill. I don't get where she's comming from? Two months ago she wanted to sell the house and was talking about how we were going to split everything in the house?! And now this...I am so confused!
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
This is good sign. She is confused! You may very well get a whole lot more of this. She isn't for sure what she wants, which gives you a fighting chance.
This is good sign. She is confused! You may very well get a whole lot more of this. She isn't for sure what she wants, which gives you a fighting chance.
kidsaver
I just sent her a TM to tell her that I saw that she's taken our engagement pictures down at her mother's house and put them in the closet. I was there for Thanksgiving and I just bring this up to her now!, Why? I have no idea.
I am so ready to get this over with one way or another! I just can't do this anymore! I am really starting not to like her as a person.
Ok, I'm just venting.
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
Click on the tab on the left titled watch online. You will have to register then watch the sermon dated 11/26. It is the first one listed titled "Being Grateful for the Gift of Today" The first part of the service is a lot of praise and music. If you are short on time, fast forward to Joel Osteen's sermon. In may not have the same effect on you but it did wonders for my attitude. The others are good as well IMHO
PS: being successful at this is alot about attitude
I'm just being so impatient after being so good for so long, but I guess that we have our moments. I saw a crack in the door and not I'm trying to barge through!
I need to slow my roll, so I can take two steps forward and one step back and not two steps back and one step forward!
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
Hey guys, I’m still around, I’ve just been doing thing to keep me busy and not worrying about WAW. I decorated the house inside and out for Christmas and I really enjoyed doing that! WAW ask me to go to Connecticut for Christmas with her! I’m going with her and I told her that I did not want to talk about the relationship and just wanted to spend time with my nieces and have a good time relaxing and enjoying my time off from work (that I really need).
We will have 7 days together, we will take a 3 hour flight and a 2 and a half car ride from the airport to her sister’s house. We have to wait for the luggage and go and rent a car so we will have to spend a lot of time together alone and the same thing on the way back. So this my opportunity to show her my changes over the week that we are there and that I have changed for the better. Our WAS leave us because they don’t know what else to do and they want us to change. But sometime we just don’t get it until we are hit between the eyes with a 2X4! In most cases they really don’t want to divorce us, but walking away they think is their only option at the time.
I’m still having my moments here and there, but they are far and few in between. She’s still acting like that I can’t have any emotions about the whole situation and I just need to take losing my wife in stride and that really bothers me. I can’t talk about what’s bothering me and she keeps bringing up that I’ve been talking to her family. I haven’t talked to her family in over a month, my MIL call yesterday to check on me and told me that it was a good opportunity for us that I’m going to Connecticut.
So if anyone have any advise I can sure use some now!!!
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
