Still alive. Been doing quite a bit of working out and hanging out with friends. I've started getting the kids one more night a week. Now I have them on wednesday night and on weekends. Still going through school, I've actually started to like a couple classes I thought I would hate. I really can't complain right now, finally took the lemons and started making some lemonade I guess.
As far as the R and the W go, she has gone and started the paperwork for the D. I told her if you want it I wont pay and I wont file but I'll sign it. Don't really care at this point, I just want to see my kids as much as possible and to keep having fun.
Thanks for checking up on me, I should really try to update here a bit more often.
Great to hear you get to spend more time with the kids. That is soooo important. And glad to hear about your classes and having a good time with your life.
I wish your W could see things differently, but sometimes we just can't get them to see it. I know that at some point, she is going to look back and wonder, -did I do the right thing?- I wish it were now, but we can't do anything to make her change her mind. I'm glad that your taking control of your life, and trying to make the best of it as you can. It will keep getting easier and time goes by.
thanks for posting...you don't have to if you don't want to, but it's nice to hear people doing okay considering. And you truely sound so much better now than before. You will have those days, but they will get fewer and fewer, and you will keep getting stronger and stronger, and all of this won't be in vain because it has made you a much better person, and a much better dad for sure! Your children are lucky to have such a wonderful father.
God bless you stillhangin
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
