Well, guys and girls. I'm stopping in to check everybody out and give ya a quick update. This new site format is confusing!!! The wife has finally did the unforgivable. When we seperated in August I signed with her to get a new SUV. We were really bad upside down on our other car (which is what they were having sex in) and I was afraid that she would dump it on me since I was the only person on the note. They wouldnt finance the new one for her becouse of bad credit, so I had to sign also. But I figured she would be less likely to skip out on it, since building her credit had always been a priority for her. Last week I got home from work to find it sitting in my drive way. She knows that I can't afford it either. She was able to buy herself a small house for like 50K though. She did this to me out of spite.I have caught her in several lies. We had a big argument a couple of weeks ago and signed our divorce papers, which I had typed up. I just have to file them at the courthouse now. she's still seeing the OM too!!!!! The relationship with the new GF is going great. We go on a lot of trips. She loves to snuggle and is very affectionate, so different from my W. OOPS! Out of time. I have to get to work. I'll post more later.
WOOOOOOOW!! I just read both complete posts from beggining to here.When you read it all at once, it's amazing to see the change in attitude over a few months. If I had kept the same attitude that I had from the start, I'd have been crushed, continually manipulated and used. Well, for anybody bored enough , or just plain crazy enough to have read these posts, or been around long enough to remember me, here's an update, some 5 1/2 years later !!! The Wife and I did eventually get divorced the next summer. By that time she had, I believe, stopped seeing the OM. She later married another guy with whom she and the OM worked with. All three of them eventually had to take a buy out from work when the economy nose dived. A couple of years ago, the OM was was driving with his daughter in the car, when the car was struck by an out of control S.U.V., killing his daughter. She was about 9 yrs old. This is a guy that I used to fantasize about killing, but with this news, I could only think that I would not wish that pain on my worst enemy. And if I ever had an enemy, It would have to have been him. But that was horrible to hear.
The relationship with the girlfriend mentioned in the previous posts slowly escalated to the point that we were living together "IN SIN" , until I made her an "HONEST WOMAN" on Dec 16, 2011. ( maybe she'll stop all that lieing !! LOL just kidding)
After she remarried, my now ex-wife and I had a few occasions to talk about situation, to sort the whys and what ifs, to get closure. I haven't talked to her in over 2 years. I do run into her son sometimes. He has a baby !! My son is a fireman. Life marches on !
