Well here's another fine mess: This morning they (spouse and OW)were breaking up, never speaking again and an hour later they are back together.
I made the mistake of paying attention to the calendar due to the fameous statistic that "most affairs don't last more than 6 months". Guess what today is? SIX MONTHS TO THE DAY!!!!! How many times will I let myself be dragged through this?
Anybody got any feedback on this experience?
Patience is not only a virtue, sometimes it is an impossibility.
It's really like a roller coaster like people who have been through it described it to be. I see you're in the Phoenix area, any chance your H is the one hooked up with my W?
Here's hoping your calendar is more accurate than mine. Anybody care to post about how LONG things took? I still see light at the end of the tunnel but jeeze...
The good news is spouse has counseling appt today. Bad news is the happy lovers have tickets to a play tomorrow night.
Patience is not only a virtue, sometimes it is an impossibility.
