There are a few forums which stress asexuality like Asexuality.org
I'm thinking back to Lil's, maybe wrong here, beau and some of our partners. What is/are the chance/s that this is what we're up against, or kidingly would like to be up against.
I say this because I have discovered that H's definition even in his 20's was "once a month" is enough. Now he's ED and I am suposed to use his medical condition to have sympathy for his plight. My contention is that he cannot use the thing both ways..."once a month" and now "broken" to his defense then and now. I think he's been asexual and forced himself a few times or the lust in the beginning of his first marriage and our meeting was enough to spark him a bit till the wedding band was on.
Thoughts?
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
