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never did learn to do that the "right" way.
I am so exhausted from all of this.


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I am kind of shocked by how sad and devastated I feel. As I told him last night in my screaming fit, this is worse than the first time, I guess to know that the lies go on, and the worst part of all is that he stayed home to talk to that whore on the phone while i rushed S to the hospital when he was so desperately ill. I don't know if I can reconcile that....and then he doesnt even seem to see it as wrong.


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I don't know, does anybody have a quick reminder for me on the LRT and after-the-last resort? I'm kinda thinking that's gotta be where I go...


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You can make it through this, have your thoughts together, listen and keep your goals in mind. Tonight will probably be about self control and toughness for you. I suspect he will be doing justification and apologizing. Remember, if you have to take a break and come back, do so. I would get the talk over with so instead of festering, you'll know what your facing. I'm not sure what to say about the hotel idea, your call.

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Hi Phoenix, I kinda lean the way you do to get the talk going. I am calmer than I was, hope I can stay that way.
I did start a pro/con list of leaving. it's not real long on either side, but interestingly so far the pros are ahead, although the cons are "heavier" I think. although I just thought of a few more cons....hmmmm


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I wonder if H will stop by my office. I will miss it if he doesnt, I always look forward to it. I don't know if it will be good or bad if he does, though, the obnoxious sob has a way of melting my heart. Guess I'll know in the next 20 - 30 minutes, though. sigh.


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H did stop by my office. I saw him glance at my shelf where I had our photos, I took them down because they made me so sad. I thought he kind of looked shocked. Said he is too tired to talk tonight. I'm exhausted also, but i sure want to know what he has to say.


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JUst realised I posted on your old thread. Thinking of you. Slowly


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Well a reaction to taking the pictures down could be a good thing...

It makes the "WAS" see you may be moving on and that can bring them back around...

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