I really need some good advice on what to do. My H left a little over a month ago saying that he was not happy and he was tired of all the arguments. We have been together for 12 years (aug 06) and married for 7 (april 06). well he says that he has filled out the papers to give to the lawyer and that this is what he wants not because he doesn't love me because he says that he loves me to death and not because he is not attracted to me because he is very attreacted to me. i asked him a while back if he had any hope for us and he said that he still has a little but the reason he is still going through this is because he is so hea strong about it. i am bearly making ends meet after paying my bills and he is talking about buying a street bike. he spends just about his whole check on whatever and he doesn't even know. i don't understand because at times he is the sweetest man and he acts like he wants to come home and other times he is the biggest SOB that i have ever met. we have 2 kids 11 and 4. anytime he has a bad day, doesn't feel good, or is pissy at someone else he is very short with me and treats me like crap. he still tells me that he loves me and gives me a kiss when he comes to see the kids (everyday) and before he leaves. he won't open up to me and when he snaps at me and gets pissed and yells at me for no reason i get mad because it hurts my feelings. i am so confused because his actions are not saying the same as his words.It is so hard for me not to call him, but i try to only call him when i have to, he is living with his younger sister and her boyfriend and their room mate. i just really need a lot of advice for a lot of questions. someone please help!
I'm so sorry you're here. Have you looked over at the MLC threads? Not that I'm trying to label your husband's behaviour, but he does sound a bit erratic and like some of the WAS in MLC.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei
