In Texas, it takes 65 days to get divorced. My divorce was scheduled to be final in 10 days. Praise God! My WAH is moving home tomorrow. We have a long road ahead of us, but I am convinced that the changes I have been making for myself will help me to deal with issues better and lead to positive changes in our M. After listening to him, he seams to be on the same page. I am a bit nervous, but mostly so overjoyed I can't think straight right now. I moved over from my previous thread : http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB24&Number=1128709&fpart=&PHPSESSID=
I am so greatful for the opportunity for us to piece our marriage back together again!
We are taking it slow. We both know what the issues are and what needs to be changed. Our biggest problems occured because of where we hung out and the people we hung out with. Our first step is getting away from that group of people who are negative influences on our relationship. "Cleaning our ties while cleansing our lives." We are spending time together without distractions from others. When I have time, I will write about his thoughts and what made him decide to come home. I don't have as much time to post now that I regained my wifely duties- but I wouldn't change it for the world!
