Thanks for posting. Barney and I both agreed that scheduling sex is what we have to do at this time in our life. It won't always be this way. But it doesn't mean that is the only time we can have sex either!
Both of us usually don't work on Mondays. It is our day for more gourmet sex. Spending more time together. Kids are at school so no one is home...which I really like! Today though, Barney and the kids worked on me to let them stay home from school...Barney and I have had a great day with them and both of us have expressed disappointment for our day together...but he said, we'll just have to make it up, it only takes one time!
He has been wonderful to me since we've been having sex..although I'd like to have a few months of history with this under our belt. We've been here before, but both of us have learned from it...and that is COMMUNICATE!!!!
We held hands in the car today, he have me a shoulder rub night before last, has helped around the house...he's been really great! All Barney has ever needed was sex....but by the time I really understood what that meant to him there was so much hurt and resentment...that it took us a long time to get back here.
I think we are both willing to do whatever it takes to live happily like this. I am far from being where I need to be and what I want to do for him...but I know that as we continue with the pattern that we have that some of my hurt will be healed and that will come.
Quote: We held hands in the car today, he have me a shoulder rub night before last, has helped around the house...he's been really great! All Barney has ever needed was sex....but by the time I really understood what that meant to him there was so much hurt and resentment...that it took us a long time to get back here.
