Have not posted in a while and have not even read the forum. Things have been going very well for us for the past 9 or 10 months. I think the biggest part was me changeing the way I react to things she does or does not do. We have stopped the serve and volley that used to lead to resentment and anger. Issues still come up, but we are both quick to get to the bottom of it and move on. (The biggest thing is that she is now the one who makes a point to make sure that does not happen). I really was amazed at how just working on the way I get along with my wife really affects my everyday life and the way I view people in general. NOPkins, good to see you started posting again! People can really benefit from your posts. Andy
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.