Anyone can answer. Please state if you are HD,LD, or ND as well. Is being lovers important to the success of your marriage. H#ll, what is the definition of lovers to you? Is being lovers an unrealistic goal?
I for one am not going to answer this question...not until you start being more forthcoming about what you have done, are doing, or will do to actively work on your problems in your M. I'm not talking about participating on this BB either, I'm talking about actual work to try to do something to fix the problems in your M.
I know others may find this harsh of me, but I'm pretty tired of answering things over and over again and asking questions and almost never receiving a response from you.
Go ahead...someone tell me to lighten up. I'm just speaking from my gut.
It looked like you were beginning to give out some tidbits about your specific situation there, and now you are going back to the ultra-general, with labeling to boot. Can you not see that there are people here willing to help you, but general comments about HD, LD, ND are not giving them too much room to help you? Do you want help?
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
Gel this is Chrissy cheering you on.
You are right on the spot.
Either he wants help or he wants to just complain his choice he can make the first move.
We all hear things that we don't want to around here at one time or other. But dissappearing to later reappear with another generalized question/statement is not helping yourself CeMar either open the drapes so others can see what is going on inside or keep doing what you are doing and groping around in the dark.
Gel this is Chrissy cheering you on.