You were locked and I so wanted to respond to you that I took the liberty of starting another thread. And hey with the name everyone will come running lol!
First of all let me say this you must be one hell of a kisser if you can make your wife O from a kiss. Never in my life. That would be awesome.
I know I am a LD on this board but as we all know that is BS. So let me enlighten you to a few things from what I read in your post.
Your wife has O but does not make a big deal of them and you are thinking you lack something because you cannot send her into wild tandoms.
Urgh no all woman O differently. When I O I do not thrash around wildly nor do I moan groan scream or else wise have many visable signs. I actually hold my breath during a O and move very little.(I also held my breath will giving child birth for what ever that is worth). But every muscle in my lower half tighten which is exactly why I do not move around. Movement makes me relax the muscles and loose out on the O. Its a focus tech. Or maybe BF will say it is a control issue lol. After I O is when the wild thrusting urge comes in to play. Jungle sex as I refer to it. I still do not grunt groan moan or what ever. Well maybe moan now and again but not to a extreme. But I am not faking it or not enjoying it bottom line. It is just the way I have O's. If I was to flay around the bed I would be faking it.(okay and laughing my ass off).
I'm afraid I am not usually very good at that though, because she often tells me I am pressing to hard
She is not telling you not to do it just to ease off some. That is a good sign. This is a art I had to teach my H also. I use to feel like he was digging for gold down there. Pratice while sitting at your desk or where ever. Get some carbon paper put it under a few pieces of paper. Rub the paper lightly the goal to not press hard enough to rub carbon on to the paper. You are teaching your self a pressure tech. You can gauge how much pressure you are asserting with your fingers at this time. Sounds whack but believe me it will help you. Of course the easiest way would be if you had a wife that just said a little softer instead of stop to gauge it but hey we cannot all be me
Now on to the good stuff.
Your wife has had no problem with fantasy play. Is it always the same fantasy? This screams to me she likes it. Maybe by not being herself she disconnects from her moral self? Is less inhibated or what ever. While I myself could do the sexy lingerie and high heels. Talk to me or act as if I am suppose to be a hooker I am going to role on the floor laughing my ass off. But I have friends that love custumes and whips and chains and the such. They love to play stripper/dancer and can completely get into it. Not just the dress up part. I sold alot of custumes to people (okay I would not carry the school girl ones just found that to sick). But some bought custumes that went in line of there spouses work theme like racing/fireman. So it was about them still even though it was fantasy playing. Fantasy can be fun and can also be used as a great learning tool. If you are both playing for the other.
Your wife will tell you when she is ready for you to enter her, Your wife will get on top which means she is doing some of the work. Your wife will role play You know what gets your wife hot. Kissing and breast foreplay. Your wife is not as LD as you think. You need to learn how to play her passions and make her unable to deny them.
After you read this give her one of those knee knocking kisses when you go to bed then tell her you love her and then snuggle up and go to sleep do it before you leave for work. A few times a day then no follow up. Oh she will want you. And after a few days follow up and give her what she wants.
Ok I came running. hear to learn from the master. LOL.
Maybe by not being herself she disconnects from her moral self? Is less inhibated or what ever.
Ditto. thats what I saw too.
give her one of those knee knocking kisses when you go to bed then tell her you love her and then snuggle up and go to sleep do it before you leave for work. A few times a day then no follow up. Oh she will want you. And after a few days follow up and give her what YOU KNOW she wants
Talk to me or act as if I am suppose to be a hooker I am going to role on the floor laughing my ass off.
Hey now! Watch it Chrissy. I could start to take offense No more chocolate for you! j/k At least I said it was stupid I'm going to go over to your thread now and say hi
I was not picking on you lol. If I had been it would have been the black stocking cap I would have said something about.
My ex use to like to talk dirty durring sex and believe me I would have to contain myself from falling out laughing. Was a real mood wrecker for me guess a self pump up for him. When I lived in CA. I worked in a bar part time. And one night this guy told me he would like to stick his hmmm you know up my nose and blow my brains out, WTF? I being me and being totally befuzzeled by this just looked at him and said I was sorry to hear it was small enough to fit in my nose. But now anytime I hear someone talk dirty this comes to mind and I bust a gut(and still am like WTF did he mean by that).
So was not picking at you silly just ahhh the memory!
being totally befuzzeled by this just looked at him and said I was sorry to hear it was small enough to fit in my nose
LMAO ..genius..... sheer genius. I love it. whew.
LFL, I cant even tell you how hard it is holding back from commenting on the fisherman/whore thing. But I am. cause its cute in reality. But chrissy is making me LOL over here and adding that in. ahhhh im crying with laughter over here. chrissy said black stocking cap.
ROTF.
dont be mad, and thanks for sharing. Its all good if eveyone is having a good time and gets satisfied.
Ah Chrissy, you bring back memories of an old friend that I lost touch with. She was flashed on the street one time and said to the pervert "Yep, looks just like a penis, only smaller". She was a very quick wit. I miss that woman.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
