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#629649 01/20/06 05:35 PM
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I havent been here in a while but I thought I would give yall an update.

Most here know my past. But after my W's last A's last year and leaving my son and I alone on Thanksgiving night in 2004, I gave up. I had a date on new years eve. I ended up sleeping with the woman and generally had a good time. W found out and changed that day. I struggled with it for several months back and forth watching W change. After a while she admitted her sordid past to me about the last 3 years of our marraige and the cheating she had done. I admitted my one pa and then I broke off all contact with ow. It wasnt fair for any one to play around with everyones emotions.
Here it is a year later and we are doing great. We just bought a house together in September and are focusing a lot of our time on makeing the house our home.
We still struggle with trust and sometimes intimacy issues but all in all we are on tract. Its amazing what can happen when you allow God into your life and decisions.
Hope all is well with all of you here, my friends.


Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
#629650 01/20/06 06:17 PM
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Howdy. I don't know your past at all, but I read this, was going to post a 'way to go', thought I'd skip it, clicked off the page, and then caught your signature line. I had to come back. Those lyrics are so true, what we should all have. Sounds like you've found it, your way back to it.

Way to Go!


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Riding the trail less traveled.
#629651 01/21/06 01:05 AM
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Great! It's nice when we can get to piecing (even though no relationship is perfect!) Congratulations, I did follow your threads.

#629652 01/21/06 12:44 PM
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Kevin

I remember you from those days when you were heartbroken, and I am so glad for you now that you and your wife are working things out!


"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
#629653 01/26/06 02:58 PM
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Hi Kevin,

I'm still hanging around and glad to see the update and turn around in your situation!



Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"

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