I went out with my x today. D final about 2 weeks ago. We didn't talk much during the D. I was wrongly using the going dark thing. Hey, she is moving back and we are back together. Not M now but we are going to give another shot. So as the saying goes do something different. I didn't beg, I didn't act like I cared to her and that did not work. I tried to GAL but nothing worked until I just sat down and talked and told her how I truly felt. Hell, I thought she knew.