Has anyone gone through this with the MC yet. What specifically do they do to work on the physical connections (not just sex). And better yet, how do they tackle the "desire" issue. What are the exercises they give? It seems to me that much of counselling is about fixing the other issues and "Hoping" that this resolves the physical touch issue (and from what I have seen, this rarely works). And if the spouse has the arrousal first then desire problem, how do they propose to fix this?
Cemar: Different MC's work in different ways. Your best bet would be to get a list together and start calling them. Interview them about their credentials, their philosophy (pro-marriage?), and their approaches to problems involving the lack of physical touch. Do they encourage sensate-focusing?
I think MC would be a good start for you and Ms.Cemar, but finding the right one can be a challenge.
SD: I've asked him before, and I think his answer is that he joined the board a long time ago, when they allowed avatars...but now that feature is disabled.
