If they go for several days without ML, it starts to hurt, and she starts to pull back and put up a wall to keep away the hurt.
Well it wasnt ML, but it still applies to .... moving on...
So what should I do? How should I act?
What should I do next?
Also how do I find my lost libido?
and came home and said we just need to "do it." He was very affectionate and looked very lovingly at me
Ok Lil Restarting your libido, I have no idea. I am used to being the restart and it takes time with LD ladies, which I consider you right now, not knowing your self love frequency. (not necessary BTW, TMI ) With HD ladies its like 4,3,2,bang.
---->side note HD your W is not trully LD. NOPE. not at all.
With LD ladies its more like 15,14,13...big sigh... 12,11...Like your bf said 'just do it'. Make a date, maybe even use cialis (he didnt mind using other party favors, phrase it in this way, it will take tension off the situation and change his mindset with the performance failure, hopefully.) and both show up with the intention of doing it. You gotta start somewhere. As for how to act. I always use the idea of doing what I did in the beginning. It worked for my reconcil, it works for every one of my new R's? that is to stong a word ... companionship seeking encounters. You can remember how you felt then, if you can visualize it well enough, or drop into that memory far enough you will FEEL the emotion of the memory. Remember when you were ga ga over him. It will fire off some chemical helpers.
"Tell Me No Lies." by Ellyn Bader Peter Pearson w/Judith Schwartz. I am reading it now. So far one of the things that applies to me is, don't smooth over or avoid the truth to make some one else not react poorly to you. Let the SO have all of the truth and let the SO react how ever they react.
) With HD ladies its like 4,3,2,bang.