Quote: My new out look on life, and maybe the most important thing I learned from DBing, is this: I'm not looking for someone else to make me happy in life, but someone to share my happiness with.
WOW, HOPE!! I am so happy for you!! That is so great! Yes, the most important thing in DBing is that no one can make YOU happy, you have to do that YOURSELF! And the person you want to share in this happiness is just along for the ride!
I know some of the feelings you are probably having - about XH and him being happy in CA and now someone else in your life!
Take it easy, hang in there. 2006 has to be better than 2005!! Good for you about sharing your happiness!
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.