The pain from a 12 year affair must be great. Her callous disregard and abuse of you is gone I hope. This is a good place to heal yourself.
I personally do not agree with what you say above...... I do agree that this is what many women (whether they admit it or no) want in a relationship
ahh, that is your perogative of course to disagree, but your statements are not quite reconcilable now are they?
I do not believe that you can have a one size fits all attitude to relationships
Good there is hope for you yet.
I have found that the master/slave syndrome
you read what I posted but do not understand what I say. Open your mind and stop filtering. Since you dont understand what I was trying to convey, I recommend a move to a different country if you do take this master/slave approach in the future,
I do agree that this is what many women (whether they admit it or no) want in a relationship............I still don't think the dominant/submissive role is the way to go, but I couldn't prove it from my experience..........
the two statements above is like denying the nose on your face while squeezing it with your fingers and looking at it in the mirror. How would you like to prove it? With wanting things to be how you believe they should be?
As far as biology goes, human biology, human neurology, and human physiology. I like the discovery channel but arachnid mating habits are not how I developed my ideas on human attraction. I wish pheromones was all it took... actually I dont morality and population control is already a problem.
I have been getting much negative feedback from posters to the Infidelity Section who have accused me of verbal abuse, verbal attacks, treason, incest, Christ-killing, etc.
Often times it is better to take a general consensus that others offer to us and consider it constructive criticism and be open to change. Ignoring it, especially when you seek help on a board where people WANT to help is not looking within for solutions. Looking externally makes you a victim with no control over your life. I will reiterate though that what your wife did to you was dispicable, and not your fault.
Christ-killing? are you Roman, a Pharasee, or a Sadducee? you must be quite old (2000+ years) and I find it strange that someone with this much age has acquired so little wisdom. Did he look ascetic like Michelangelos paintings? I always imagined him very robust, and masculine. All that walking and carpentry. I would have to see a birth certificate before believing this. A photo of you on the scene would be stupendous.
Treason? the patriot act makes that a very real possibility, be careful not to engage in any potential terrorist activities. Read carefully it is quite long and has much fine print.
I find it extremely Ironic that there is so much outcry from the men over this matter.....
Chrissy I was very careful with this particular post, it is a very loaded subject already without my usual intentional misstatements and flippant remarks. Maybe I spoke good womonese this time and THAT is why the men are all in a uproar.....
