Hello all. I am 27 years old. I am a full time Kindergarten teacher. I have a 4 month old son and a 7 year old step-daughter. I will have been married for 4 years in November and will have been "with" my husband for 5 years total in December. My husband and I have always had a very special connection and took pride in the fact that we could trust the other no matter what. Well, up until recently. We used to be so happy with each other and as long as we had each other we could get through anything. Dh use to tell me that nothing was worth anything if he didn't have me. Anyway, we are trying to get back to that happy place, but have had to deal with some really major ordeals and there is no excuse for any of what happened, but we have been through a lot and we both want what we used to have back. I have posted on another message board the entire story of when this all blew up with DH and I. It all blew up about a month ago. Things seem better, but I still have some issues I am trying to get over. I have read a few posts on here and it seems that you all think it is never too late to save a marriage and that it can always be like it was if not better, that is encouraging. I just need to know where to start. My story is very long. I mean VERY long. It would take a long time to post it all and a long time for you to read it all, but I wanted to check and see if it was ok to post for that reason. I just want opinions and advice from you all knowing as many facts/details as you can. That way you know and understand better. Anyway, I am glad to have found a site that might be able to help and get ideas from others that have been through this in some way or another. Thanks so much in advance and just let me know if I can post it here.
