Hi WCW, Sorry about the silence. Yeah, we're still around. I guess from my perspective, things are going as well as they could. Some days are better than others. Zilla has been sick for the past two days and I'm doing my best to nurse her back to health. Nothing serious, just a doozy of a cold.
Quote: Hi WCW, Sorry about the silence. Yeah, we're still around. I guess from my perspective, things are going as well as they could. Some days are better than others. the key is the commitment to work it out as there will always be up & down days in life
Zilla has been sick for the past two days and I'm doing my best to nurse her back to health. Nothing serious, just a doozy of a cold. Great that you are nursing Zilla - hope that she's now on the mend with all our loving & nursing care - got that chicken soup ready? Tell Zilla I hope that she's feeling better soon
Hey all, sorry to post so far apart. Big things happening in our lives. I am still sick... Zuki was right - it's a doozy.
H's children - the twins who live at their mom's house - were having some trouble. Their stepdad abused his D11 - hit her hard enough that she got a bloody nose. Then smashed the phone during her 911 call to help her mom while he was yelling and hitting her. No one badly hurt, but enough for their mom to get a 1yr restraining order against the jerk.
In any case, being a very good mom, she decided to give us custody so she can focus her energy and time on her two children by her second M. So, in a fuzzy frame of mind already from this horrible cold, we took custody of the children, and bid on a bigger house. We do the inspections tomorrow, and H signed custody papers today.
Whew. We haven't had time to work on ourselves at all. But we will be back on board soon. Just wanted to update. Right now we are in hover mode in our M just until the new house and kids are settled. Then I guess we will go back to working on our issues. The kids need us both very much right now so it is back to being selfless and sacrificing for them, and I just hope our M is strong enough to survive while it is back to being ignored.
Hey all, things are pretty good here. Considering, I guess.
Custody is finalized, we have all three kids of my H's prior M. Restraining order against the stepdad... going to court tomorrow because he is fighting it. Holiday shopping and a new house with boxes everywhere... PHEW!
So, our lives are crazy. But we are really making time for ourselves (each other). We are in love and it's tough to try to remember that love doesn't feed itself when we are so busy. It's late here and Zuki is out at the 99 with friends, so if I remember, I will ask him to post his feelings/insights from recent times.
Good luck to everyone and happy holidays! May all your wishes come true, or at least the important ones.
