I have posted all over the place...been DBing...and trying to hang tough...yet tonight...after he said he had "closure" with her...I catch him text messaging her...I didn't say anything (turned the other cheek Dang Ole DB anyhow)...and he still comes at me like I am the skank in the crowd...it is obvious he hates me...and she is the queen B now...I just don't understand how we got this way and have been trying real hard to DB for the past 5 weeks...yet I get shot down again...it hurts so much...do I carry on...or not?? That is the question..
Hi Bink. I don't know if anyone has mentioned it yet, but this stuff takes time. Lots of time. Should you give up? If you're over him, perhaps. If you still love him and want to make this work some day, then, probably you shouldn't give up.
I know it hurts. It's going to hurt. It might get worse. But if you play your cards right, do the right stuff, maybe it'll get better. Patience is the key.
Sorry I missed your other posts, I don't venture too far from the Infidelity boards much. Here is a link to old timer's MFs thread. I think you may find it inspiring and helpful: 1 Year of DBing
