Wow...thanks Scott. And special thanks to Focused Flutist who came out of hiding long enough to wish me Paljon Onnea. Now, back in exile, you expatriate!
Phew...I just finished an assignment that I've been avoiding for a month and a half. I even knew that it was due on my birthday, but I still put it off. If only I didn't procrastinate...if only I put as much effort into my work as I do into my personal life.
I guess I could start a bulleting board for "motivation starved employees." I'm definitely LD.
Oh, and regarding the question of whether my W will "honor me with her body" this day, I doubt it, but she can't say that she doesn't know that I want it on my birthday. I said, very clearly, in an MC session about a month ago that there are certain days that a person has a justifiable expectation of sex: Birthday (both yours and your spouse), anniversary, New Year's Eve, and Valentine's Day.
Your thread is one that I still follow in the SSM forum with the hope that one day I'll read that your W "gets" it and gives you the loving that you want. I've never forgotten how encouraging and kind you were when I used to post here; your W is a lucky woman.
Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. Will Rogers
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. C. S. Lewis