I went 1 year without seeing my X or speaking to him, because Mrs Simpson did the child hand - overs.
It was the most peaceful year of my life, aside from visitation problems, and I hated having EX-OW at my house, but I think it was marginally better than the current circumstances.
Its been 6 weeks for me, I have been sending little cards every week though just to say I hope she is doing well and what not. I did send her an email today though that told her I had sent her things and that I would respect the space she wanted and not send anything else. She didnt even send me a card or an email on my birthday. If you don't have kids what is there motivation for contacting you? Especially if there is OP. I doubt I will hear from her. We are both heavily into church though and I just pray God really convicts her about this D.
