Hi everyone! I thought I'd pop in after a few months of absence to see who is active on here and am pleased (or disappointed) to find all my old friends still posting like crazy! Life in SD land is pretty good at the moment and relations between W and me are really great. We seem to have rediscovered the art flirting with each other which is lovely. The Friday night routine is still going strong and although I have not managed to persuade her that another day of the week would also be fun I am more than happy with this arrangement. She has not rejected me once on a Friday night and I even think that secretly she has come to enjoy it. Actually girls, I’m tempted to buy a vibrator to give her the best possible bedtime experience. It would have to be ultra quiet and reasonably innocuous looking (a Rampant Rabbit might be too risqué for her). Do you think this would be sensible? Should I tell her about my idea or should I dive straight in and use it without warning? Can anyone recommend the most suitable model? Also, what should I do with it??? SD xxx
It's so nice to see an oldie return with good news... you have a steady, enjoyable routine happenin'---how great is that! I really like the vibrator idea---seems like W might really like some ( light) fun and surprise (I probably wouldn't say anything beforehand). I will leave it to my more experienced and creative HD sistas on the board here to give you suggestions...recently when I went on vacation my H brought this massage thingy which fit in the palm of his hand; he used it all over my body ( not just " there" ) and it was fun. All the best to you...Hairdog is on vacation; I know he would have liked to stop by on your thread and say hi.
The rabit may be too much, AGREED! Some are very good indeed and it can be almost more than a guy can compete with. "Spoilers" if you will.
Consider a glass textured dildo with slow, gentle application. The temperature change is very interesting and allows for much eye contact and personal melding vs the "drugged effect" of an extreme stimulator.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
Hiya Dave! Glad to hear that things are going well in your world!
Well, fella, I have no advice regarding the other stuff. My own preference is for good old H, but the plastic stuff will do in a pinch. I prefer smoothness and none of the little bumps and such. Something small and unobtrusive..they make them small as lipsticks you know.
Maybe Jenny will have some good advice.
At any rate, I'm so happy that things continue to go well.
It's always nice to hear good new. I'm afraid I have no good vibrator advice since I've never felt the need for one and have always made do with fingers or faucet though I have considered purchasing a dildo on occasion. Hopefully this will not be necessary .
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
About the vibrator, something small and smooth would probably be good. I have 2, one smooth and the other with little bumps, but honestly the smooth one is better. Get a shower massage, one that you can change the different pulsating action........
Funny that the HD ladies on here are not huge purchasers of "toys" - there are several sites you can look at with ratings on things like quietness and intensity. www.goodvibes.com is one, even www.drugstore.com has some. I don't have any because my fingers and imagination seem to more than do the trick but I have thought of getting one just for fun. If I were you I might consider one of the "fingertip" variety - not so daunting.
Hey SD, good to hear from you, glad to hear things are going well.
Here is another site you can check. www.blowfish.com. They have lots a info on vibrators and offer many different options. I don't have a link to a UK provider, however.
I got my spouse a vibrator many years ago and the batteries died due to sheer old age, rather than usage.
Scott
-Who is still wishing for the balmy 20 degree weather.
"Satisfaction is not guaranteed." Rule #19 Ferengi "Rules of Acquistition"
Thanks for your replies everyone. As I suspected HDs don't really need toys because we have our imaginations! However... This one looks nice and discrete and probably would be good for the sort of all-over use I have in mind. http://www.goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sgin0102.exe?FNM=53&T1=1+2+AH+0503&UID=2005062904282382&UREQA=5&UREQB=4&UREQC=3&TRAN85=N I think I will wait for a good oportunity when the mood is right and tell her that I'm going to buy her one. Remember the SuperDave rule #1. Don't ask for things - tell him/her what you are going to do. Example: "Can I buy you a lovely tingly vibrator?". Expected LD answer - "NO WAY!" or "I'm going to buy you a lovely tingly vibrator!". Expected LD answer "No way! (thinks - ohh I hope he has it by next Friday!)" See what I mean? Love to you all, SD
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