Oh NY baby... You are so tempting....I was thinking that I could sign everything over to you and I insist that instead of whispering sweet nothings to me you must just tell me you fantasies of what you want me to get for you. Don't rub and caress me instead I will give you my checkbook to rub...if you still want more to bring you to that last bit of excitement I let you explode with the thrust of my 401k money in your pocket. I think that this will be just the motivation that I will need to make you love me. Don't love me for me...love me for what you think that I can give you....lol!
I get everyones point very clear...What does this romantic man think....I will want a cheating hubby that wants me for what I can give to him. I am starting to think that I really am crazy
Dont worry you are not alone here, part of me thinks that the reason H keeps saying he wants to work it out is because of the things that we aquire together. Without me there would not be 2 motorcycles, a quad, new car etc. I am a generous person but now it is taking advantage. Just know that you are not alone, part of the life he sees with you is that you can have the things that you want, apart you cant. You cant buy someones love, but at the same time there has to be a line drawn. You are not alone, so keep detaching and see what happens...That comment could of been made to feel you out at the same time
Gotta say, BQT... Your H has a bit to learn about sweet-talk. Be aloof and keep those purse strings tightened. Give him what he wants and you'll get a lovely view of his back as he leaves.
Too bad we're too far away or we could be sipping cocktails right now while our bambinos frolic and DMF cooks us dinner.
That sounds like it would be great. H just called to let me know that he isn't coming over tonight....Like I really thought he was...duh! H hurts my feelings because Hannah wants her daddy and he makes time for everything else except her. Whenever I talk to him anymore he is short and rude unless he wants something. I did say that by his actions it looks as if our marriage is goin no where...he said thats fine with him. H also said that he is going home...and of coure stated that his home is at his sisters. I don't know why he has been so mean lately...he is really acting different. I think that he is really ready for it to be over. I don't know what to do!
IGNORE HIM! Don't comment on what his actions tell you about your marriage... file it away silently. Just have fun without him and let him catch up if he ever decides to. Don't comment on anything... it seems to feed his desire to hurt you.
So true....I just wish that he wouldn't call at all rather then upset me by being mean. I am so happy and outgoing with him...I also tried to act as if I needed his help...that didn't work for me. Everything I do pushes him away further. If I am mean he is mean...if I am nice he is mean...if he is Nice then he wants something. Yikes!
So true again....I think I am going to leave and take Hannah to the Orange County Fair for a little while. I hope that you have a great night Anna....chat with you soon. Keep resting and getting better
I trust you had a good time at the fair tonight. I thought about going tomorrow but I'm not really interested in cruising around there by myself. I'd like to go see Beck there on Thursday Night the 21st. He's playing the Pacific Amphitheater.
It sounds to me like you are doing better. Your writings evoke more strength and confidence in the last couple of days.
