Looks like my thread is locked, so here is the water fountain trick DogLover asked about.
Sex tricks/techniques are like recipes. I do things the way I do them because of the unique combination of my personal experience, preferences, things I've read about or have been told (I actually have had female friends with whom I've discussed sex in a blow-by-blow manner. IMO this is great fun and the type of convo most likely to make you laugh so hard you almost pee. Though this was mostly when I was young. It's fun to discuss what happened sexually on a third date, but it can be seriously depressing to discuss what didn't happen sexually on your tenth anniversary. ) and of course my H's preferences also.
Pretend like you are a cross between a high paid hooker and a baseball pitcher. Look at your H then look at his cock. Spit in your palm or spit on his cock. Hold his cock at the base with your thumb applying light pressure on the ball side. Using spit as lubricant, start applying up/down, slightly circular motion to bottom half of cock. Then add freestyle mouth activity to top half of cock; lick, suck, spit again etc.. It works well if you apply a circular motion with your mouth that is the reverse of the one you are applying with your hand. Eventually, you will be able to tell that your H is about to orgasm because you will feel this sensation under your thumb which is sort of like the feeling in your stomach when an elevator moves, sort of a downward motion that preceeds the upward ejaculation. When this happens push gently down with your hand so that the skin is taut along the length of the cock and position your lips close to the head. The semen will come out like water from a fountain and you can kind of just simultaneously catch it and spit it out with your lips without actually having to taste it.
Further variations to avoid swallowing:
1) Catch the semen in your mouth and then dump it in his belly button.
2) Catch the semen in your mouth and then give it back to him with a soul kiss.
3) Finish with a "breast job".
Semen doesn't taste great but it does taste interesting, kind of like bitter fish sauce, IMO. I just consider it one of those tastes one acquires as one becomes an adult. I mean I didn't like the taste of oysters or black coffee or whiskey at some point, but now I do and because these are all unique sensual experiences of taste they carry certain unique psychological or emotional connotations also. In the right situation a shot of whiskey or a slug of bitter black coffee tastes not exactly "good" but nevertheless appropriate and satisfying. The same is true of the taste of semen once you've grown used to it.
P.S. Once you've mastered the trick of being able to tell your H is about to come by applying thumb pressure, you can try to see if you can give him a multiple orgasm. To do this you press down with just enough force to block the flow of the semen right when he's about to ejaculate. This forces the semen back down the tube. Then you let go and let him orgasm. My H doesn't particularly like this sensation but I've read that many men do.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I like the taste of semen because it is HIS semen. It actually makes my lips numb--I don't know why, but I'm sure some more educated person will tell me why--and I have grown to like that sensation. I crave the taste of him simply b/c it's his taste and not because it is necessarily delicious.
JJ, I should think that if semen in her mouth was OK, then why wouldn't swallowing also be OK? In my case, neither will happen bc she stops at the first hint of pre-cum.
Well, as a lurker who doesn't post often, I'll tell you MY objection to swallowing. It's a sensory thing... kind of like trying to swallow a raw egg. If it hits the back of my throat, I gag, immediately! Perhaps it's 'all in my head', but it's a pretty unpleasant experience all the same!
And just to be informative, I'm the LD in the relationship, and I do give bj's (not as often as he would like I'm sure! ) but I tend to do it and 'finish' with IC or HJ. Hubby is wonderful to warn me if he is getting close to ejaculating. He has never 'surprised me', so he gets them far more often!!!
As a guy, I will tell you that -- back when we were actually DOING this stuff -- I thoroughly LOVED the "give it back to him in a soul-kiss" thing, also commonly called a "snowball."
Damned sexy, and I've always loved my own taste.
Chocolateeyes, who needs to go take a cold shower now.
Quote: I should think that if semen in her mouth was OK, then why wouldn't swallowing also be OK? In my case, neither will happen bc she stops at the first hint of pre-cum.
For the same reason that it's hard to swallow anything that tastes yucky if you actually let yourself taste it. It's easier to follow the impulse to spit rather than swallow. If I actually am "deep-throating" when giving head, I find it natural to swallow for the same reason it's natural to swallow when you put a pill far enough back on your tongue to swallow it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
) and of course my H's preferences also.
) but I tend to do it and 'finish' with IC or HJ. Hubby is wonderful to warn me if he is getting close to ejaculating. He has never 'surprised me', so he gets them far more often!!! 