What would make your spouse happy?

[LostGal]

His Needs, Her Needs... You folks have referred to this style work before...I just read the first chapter and well, how true it is. It is a bit like the 5 Love Languages, where we have needs and what we expect can be so different from what we FEEL we should give.

[COgal]

A place where there are no jobs, no commitments, and no responsibility...where there are no overages on cell phone minutes (talks to 1 of his friends normally 6-10 times daily)...where there are endless fields of money trees...where the "barely legal" porn is abundant. Hey, my H could go live with Michael Jackson!

Sorry for the sarcasm; I just finished mowing the backyard (Happy Freaking Mother's Day) that H didn't have time to do all week. Those 0, 1, or 2 appts. a day (usually after 5 p.m.) really take a lot out of him, evidently.

[LostGal]

Actually its good to see you still having a sence of humor. What kinda Appts after 5pm.

Lawn/yard work is high on the list here. I'm playing catch up on paperwork and the lawn mower is having the first attack on the lawn for the season.

He and the buddy should use Verisons "in" or other like company plans...hehe...

[COgal]

He sells sunrooms, siding, windows, etc. Appts. are generally later in the day or on Sat. since most people work during normal daytime hours.

He even told our first counselor that he's had a GREAT life, but he's never committed to anything 100% whether a job or a relationship.